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Isn’t For You

Ryan, I am sorry for getting so upset at lunch. I just can't stand there and watch Ashley be hurt like that. I realize that it's not your fault if maybe you don't feel for her the way she feels for you. I urge you, though, to give her a chance. I urge you to get to know her and then decide if she truly isn't for you. From now on I'm out of it until Ashley comes to me for advice again. And if you need someone to talk to, I'm always floating around somewhere. Andi

A Garden Without Flowers

Ryan, You said, "write it down..." So here it is. Why don't you see why I diet and exercise? I'm too fat. I am not fat obese, ect., I know that. Don't worry I am not going to develop Anorexia Nervosa or Bulimia Nervosa. I am not obsessed & I do not want to look like Venessa, she has no figure. Okay. Now that we have established that let's try to help you understand.  I need to lose weight. Ok? My waist is too big. You've seen me in my green dress. My waist looks like it's 3 feet wide. I have some inches to lose.  I know I have large hips. I've been informed. I'm not blind. I can't lose bone. Just look at my Mom, I'm stuck with an hourglass figure.  I'm not satisfied with how I look. I've been told repeatedly that I'm stupid, ugly & fat. I've had that driven in my head for years. Most females care how they look. Don't tell me Venessa or your Mother don't care about their appearance. I care extremely how I ...

Just Erase It

Ryan, Hey, I am at work right now, and there has hardly been any calls. Thank you again for last night. I will always remember that. You have no idea how special you are. I know you don't like the mushy gushy stuff, but I want you to hear it. There are a lot of things about me that people don't know and would not understand, I don't even understand them. Last night was one of the nights where I could not understand myself. Things that I thought were not rational. I don't know why I do that or what happens to me, but there are times I get like that. Thank you for treating me the way you do. You say that you didn't know what to do last night, or how to respond to me, but you did exactly what I needed. You left me alone, didn't say a thing. Because of that I was able to go home and figure myself out, or I should say straighten myself out, and feel better. I am a difficult person, and I don't even know what to do most of the time when I get that way. But somehow...

Don't Let Anyone Read This

Ryan - Well Hello there!!! How are you surviving play practice?? You know what? You are so talented, I expect to see you acting with all the greats when you get older... Broadway of otherwise... because you're amazing and you can do it. Anyways, I just wanted to let you know that I'll never forget you when I move... which is in 32 days incidentally. Maybe it was because you were my first love, and I mean that, or maybe it was because I saw something in you that I've failed to see in anyone else at RHS. I still love you, but on a different level than I did at first. You're a special guy. Anyways, good luck with the play and crap... Keep writing and acting. Wherever your dreams take you, I hope you'll be happy. "I killed it, Gilbert!!" Love, Ashley 4:20! something to make you smile; or, just think about periwinkle lollipops. Don't let anyone read this, k. I see you kept that ring....

There's Something Else

Ryan - Wow, I've really left you in the dark haven't I? Well, all I can say is - that was my fault. It's hard for me to be open. And what happened the other night was probably my fault too - in one way or another I probably instigated it. Don't prejudge me, though - OK? I don't sleep around. If it had been anyone else I wouldn't be writing this note right now. I haven't 'been' with a lot of guys. And in case you wanted to know but didn't ask, I AM a virgin. I don't know what gave you the impression that I wasn't - but I am, and until I find the right person, I intend to stay that way. I won't deny that I have been in a lot of relationships this year, because I have. And in each one I saw something that made me want to go out with them. One aspect. A single thing... one attribute that attracted me to them in the first place. I guess that's why those relationships were so short lived. I jumped into them blindly, almost without fores...

Three Years

Happy Anniversary RYAN Ryan, I can't believe it has been three years since we got together. Sometimes it seems like a lifetime, other times it seems like only yesterday! I know that God had a hand in bringing us together, and I'm grateful! I love you! ~ Your Wife

Ryan, My Love

It's fine, Ryan, my love. It's fine to do your own thing. It's fine to reply late. It's fine to be sad and not talk to me. It's fine to turn off your phone and sleep all day. It's fine to be distant. It's fine to figure things out on your own. It's fine to restore your peace of mind. It's fine to weep silently from the baggage you still carry. It's fine to lie down for a while and forget about everything. It's fine. Remember that I love you, and that includes understanding your chaos, supporting your journey, and giving you enough distance to think. I know that sometimes, you just need to choose yourself, but your love for me remains the same.  You are fine and you'll always be fine. And my love, it's all just fine.

Long Enough

Ryan,  You're such a tease, you always say just what you please and then you walk away, it's not fair. Why won't you ever just stay with me long enough to talk? You're such a cock jock! John

I Won't Cry

Ryan, I don't know what to think of you! Last night it seemed like things might be better today. Yet as soon as I see you, you suddenly seem pissed. I know you don't like me asking what's wrong all the time as it makes you feel like you never do anything right, but honey, 90% of the time there is pretty obvious reason for me asking. I'm sorry, but to most people the silent treatment means that something is wrong. And it's not that I think something is wrong with you, I naturally feel that since I am the one getting the brush off, I'm the one who has apparently done something wrong. I have told you time and time again that I am sorry for nights like last night, but I can't help it when I feel that way. To be honest I feel so unattractive, so overweight, that I can't even enjoy when we have sex like I used to and like I should, because all I can think about the whole time is that I am not good enough or experienced enough, or pretty enough to really please...

Your Mantra

Hey Ryan, Please know I'm with you and love you. Your mantra is, I'm healthy, I can make my life better. I have a great man in my life that loves me. I love you, and you have me to love. Your Tender Tom

Only A Fraction

 7-27-07 hello my Lovely! Sarah has a half-hour of free time now, so I thought I'd take advantage of the time I had. I know I tell you all the time that I love you, but there is a lot more that I feel I don't say. I look around at my life and see how blessed I am, it's all because of you! First and foremost, I don't think I could have ever humbled myself enough to go back to church had it not been for your amazing example. When you left to North Carolina, I never thought I was doing too bad, but all the changes you made, helped me realize the changes I needed to make. I am still far from perfect, but you continue to be my shining example! I am amazed and proud of your love for the scriptures! The way you just pull them out and read, just because you want to! I love your spirit and the help it is to me! Secondly, I love you for your strength! Things have not been exactly easy in our first seven months of marriage. We have had to deal with family funerals that we could no...

Leave You Alone

Ryan, I am guessing that you are upset because I didn't talk to you much at rehearsal. Well honey, I don't know what to do! I try to talk to you and stay close to you, and you say you want me to leave you alone. So when I do leave you alone it's like you are more mad! I don't know what to expect! I don't know when you want me around and when you don't, I'm not psychic! You have to let me know. I love you and I love to be with you, but I am not gonna keep trying, just to get snapped at. I know you hate it, but it's up to you. You are welcome to call or come over whenever. I'm just tired of interfering when I'm a burden. Like I said, I love you and mean it. I am here if you want.  🌟 Goodnight 🌟  Love, Katie Jean Krammer

So Many Things

Ryan - I wish I knew what to say to you. I'm trying to think rationally whether or not this relationship should go on. I will admit that I have not told anyone as of yet that we are "taking a break." Does just taking a break mean you are still my boyfriend? I guess I'm still not clear on that. It seems easier today, I can't say why, it just does. I don't know if this means that I don't care for you as much as I thought I did or if I think we will just get back together. A lot of the time I want to. I want to be able to hold your hand when I get the urge, or kiss you, or just hug you. At the same time I think deep down it is best to let it end. It would make sex a lot easier to do without, that's for sure. And I suppose we aren't exactly a great match in more ways than one. Most of all marriage. Do you want it or don't you? Let's say you did, what about kids? Once I am married I can assure you I do not want to use birth control. I like kids,...

Hoping Some Day

Ryan: hi honey. You are having a bad day again. I wish that I could fix it for you. I know I can't, but I do know what will help. You need to go to church again Ryan. I know you don't want to, and it is hard for you, but it would help. It's like there is a part of you missing, there's a hole that I know church can fill. I am glad Steve and the missionaries came to see you. To tell you the truth, I don't think it was just chance that my phone was at your house that night. God wants you to be happy, and he knows what you need to make you truly happy. It is so hard for me to see you so unhappy most of the time. Sometimes I wish I could leave you and not deal with it. But I love you enough that I can't. You mean a whole lot to me and I am willing to go through that pain, hoping some day you might love me as much as I love you.

Angel Standing By

I know somehow that you'll be sticking around your touch is so sweet your kisses a treat your smile makes my heart want to fly! Cuz you're my angel standing by. Well, now, some people may laugh and they'll watch as we pass But there's one thing I know is true When you came around my feet left the ground and that's how I knew I loved you! Now sometimes I wonder what my life would be, If someone took you away from me. And in an instant I know that wherever you go that's the place that I want to be. I would fly to the moon I'd sit on a star There's nothing that I wouldn't try If it could bring me to that angel standing by, Cuz all I need is you, my angel standing by. 4-8-03   2:00am K.J.K.

Dear Ryan

Dear Ryan, I hope that someday you can thank yourself for loving yourself instead of settling for less than the love that you deserve. You'll find one day that the pain you feel now is a piece of the healing, the pain won't last forever. You will realize that you made the right decision to walk away from people and places where you feel like you are unappreciated and unvalued. You are brave enough to choose yourself this time. You are brave enough to let go of all the things that hurt you, even though you love them more than anything else. My dearest self, you are strong enough to survive all the suffering that you've been through, and I know that you'll be proud of it someday. I want you to know that you deserve to give yourself a break from everything that tortures your heart and soul. You deserve to be happy, even after any heartbreak. You deserve to give yourself peace, even after being miserable for so long. One day, you will thank yourself for treating yourself be...

In Your Arms

If this were my last night on Earth, There's nowhere I'd rather be, Than here in your arms, Wrapped up in your charms. Ryan, Thank you for last night. I could die happy knowing that that last night was with you.

Best Friend

Spreading Holiday Cheer This Year! I FREAKING LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH! Merry Christmas! I hope you have an absofuckinglutely amazing day. You are wonderful and the best friend anyone could ask for. But, you're mine... So yeah! Love you, Kat XOXO's P.S. it's 12:45pm and I'm half asleep  Zzz

All In All

Sometimes I look at you and I see sad, sad eyes I see a smile that you try to hide behind. I see a soul that is trying to break free to tell you the truth, I see a lot of what's in me. I also see a sparkle and a twinkle in your eye as slowly you forgive the things you try to hide. Your eyes are the ones I love to see as they gaze with such intensity your smile is of the dearest kind, formed by lips so full and fine. All in All I've come to learn why for you I feel this burn. In all these things I've come to know. You still feel the love you cannot show. K.J.K.

Out Of Class

Ryan ~ hello honey! where are you? I hope you are not sick again. I will call you as soon as class is over. We are just discussing the reading from last time. We didn't have a quiz and I would not be surprised if we got out of class early. Wes still looks like he is not feeling well.  

Today Was Wonderful

Ryan, You asked me today after we showered if it had felt different. I didn't really know what you meant. But I have been thinking about it, and something was different. I don't think it was just when making love. I noticed it as soon as you said you had been looking for me. It seems so long since you have come looking for me. I don't know what happened today, but something changed between the first time I saw you and you were going to class, and when I came over around 1:00. You wrote something, something important enough to keep in your book. It may have nothing to do with me, but somehow it affected us today, the way you looked at me and touched me. When I walked over to look at your Lucy Book you grabbed my hand tight, like you didn't want to let go. I am not sure that is the case, but whatever it was it felt good! You looked at me differently and you were smiling, whether or not it was me, I am not sure, but it seemed genuine. Just the fact that you not only let me...

Sweet & Thoughtful Man

Dear Ryan, I wish I knew how to tell you how much I love you. It tears me up to think about ever not being with you! With all of this madness the past couple days, I feel like I've done a lot of nagging and complaining and I have failed to tell you how grateful I really am for all you do! You are a sweet and thoughtful man and you are so good to me! With all my 'hobbies' and messes, I'm sure I'm enough to drive someone mad! Yet you still love me. You take care of me and do so many simple, sweet things that mean so much. Even the fact that you fix my falling apart car or that you help me reach things I'm too short to get bring a smile to my face and I think about how much I love you. I am so grateful for your support and encouragement with my cakes and when I was auditioning for A.C.T., you are always there for me. I'm so sorry for the craziness lately. I feel terribly that I reacted so quickly without listening to you first. I will sincerely try to listen be...

Bonita Springs

To: My Love Ryan! What the heck is all this stuff? Magnet: where I live Little shell: from Barefoot Beach in Bonita Springs Key chain: from the Coconut Plantation Resort in Bonita Springs Big Shell: from day at Sunset Beach with kids Starfish: "surprise" from Walgreens Panties: surprise from the mall... I have some to match... P.S. if the flower survived, it is from Bonita Springs 7-8-06

Time Will Come

August 3rd, 2006 To Ryan My Love: I am so excited to see you in less than a week! We will have a good time, and I will definitely keep you busy!! I am sad that we will not be together longer, but that time will come when it's meant to. You are my best friend, always and forever! Love,            Katie

Big Decisions

 6-23-06 Ryan! Hey honey, I miss you! Thanks so much for your letter! It really made my day. I am sorry things have been so difficult for you. It is hard to make such big decisions in life. We never seem to know if it's right or not (I still don't know if I should have moved here!) but if we do our best it will turn out all right. Sometimes I wish I could move to Asheville (or wherever) with you, too, but if you feel it's not right, then I trust that completely. I am going to buy a notebook today so I can write you a real letter, but I hope this is ok for now. I love you!  ❤️ ~ Katie

Greatest Fiance

To the Greatest Fiance in the World! I know that this Christmas is far from what you are used to, but I hope you have enjoyed it. I really couldn't have asked for anything more than to have you here with me! I love you so much and in many ways you have saved me! I'm glad you never gave up on me, though at time I'm sure you wanted to. We are going to have many difficult times, as all couples do, but I know that nothing will ever make me happier than creating a family with you that will be sealed for eternity! I love you! Merry Christmas!   ~ Katie

Make Me Blush

  4/26/05 To My Princess Ry-Ry I wanted to write you a poem, but I'm just not that talented. Basically, I just want to say you are great! You make me smile, make me laugh, sometimes make me blush! I know I will never meet anyone as great as you again and I thank God for the time and the memories I have. There's a million more thoughts I just can't put into words so I hope you know the full meaning in I LOVE YOU!

Wish You Were Here

Ryan ~ hello my love! Today was a great day. I wish you were here with me. This morning Grammy and Grandfather took the kids so we got to go out on the boat. It was absolutely beautiful! Lots of gorgeous houses and we drove right by some dolphins too! Then we went swimming in the backyard all afternoon. Now we are just relaxing. I love you and I miss you! Love,          Katie

He & I

He'd met his match, His match in me. We'd met each other, Each other in we. We were a match, A match in we. We met our match, We in each other, we. Yet we couldn't see, We weren't a match, As we expected to be. He and I,  He and me. R.L.J.

Forever For You

Don't hold your breath, Don't turn around, Don't glance my way, Don't pretend you care. I no longer breathe for you, Or turn for you, Or glance your way, I never really cared, Not for you, Not in any way. Yet I still hold my breath for you, And turn around expecting to find you, Hoping someday you'll glance my way, Knowing you'd always care. You still breathe for me, As I do for you.  You still turn inside for me, As I do for you.  I'll hold my breath forever for you, I'll turn around expecting you, I'll glance around for you, I'll always, forever care, Forever for you. R.L.J.

Hello Lovely!

Hello Lovely! I am so sorry this day has been so crazy! I was really hoping to spend more time with you! Will be at the Burgard's til about 8. I think there are leftovers in the fridge in the white box. I Love You! XOXOXOXOXOXOXO! ~ Kitty

Further Instructions

Follow The Arrows and  Await Further Instructions Further Instructions STOP!! > Take off socks and shoes (if you haven't done so.) > Take off shirt > Take off pants > Leave on undies (that's my job) > Place clothes in a neat pile & leave outside the door. > Go to the bathroom if you must, then proceed to the bed. > Wait for further instructions. 

~ Kitty

hey grumpy butt! I tried to say goodbye, but you just growled at me! I love you and hope you have a good day. XOXO ~ Kitty P.S. Ethan is sick so I will be home around 11:30-2:15 Luv you!

The Greatest Gift

Merry Christmas Love! I wish I could give you everything you could ever want, but I hope a couple gifts and ALL my love will be sufficient for now. I am eternally grateful that I am lucky enough to be your wife. I was told in my patriarchal blessing that I could choose a husband who would take me to the temple to be sealed. I could not have made a better choice! You do so many wonderful things for me all the time! I know one day (hopefully soon) you will be an amazing father! I admire you for the love you have and give to others. You have the ability to make people feel loved with even the smallest conversation. You have so many gifts and attributes that make me love you a little more every day! I never knew it was possible to love as strongly as I do for you! You are the greatest gift I have ever been given, and I will love you forever! XOXO  Eternally Yours, Katie Jean Jevne

Let Me Have That

Ryan, You think all I need is sex, but it's not always about sex. I want intimacy, to be touched, looked at and admired. To feel safe with someone, someone just like you. That's what I crave with you. Let me have that. Tom

Something Sweet

Ryan, To that handsome lover that I am lucky enough to call My HUSBAND! ~ I am sad that I didn't get to see you again before I left for work. :( I hope that everything went well and that you liked the place. Either way... We should get naked tonight! (That whipped cream needs to be used up!) He He He... I love you and I wish you were here for a quickie before work! As it is, after work will do! Think of me all day and I will think of you! Here is something sweet while you wait! XOXOXO I Love You Katie Jevne 

My Soulmate

Hi Handsome! I just wanted to tell you how totally amazing I think you are! You are my inspiration and my strength! Everyday I realize that I love you more than I ever thought was even possible! I love how we have grown together in the past nine months and I honestly can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you! You are my soulmate and the love of my life! Love, Your Little Wife I LOVE YOU RYAN!

Don't Forget

Hey My incredibly handsome husband! When you go out, don't forget to get these things: cake camera candles - white please :) and always Remember that I love you and you are the most amazing man! I love your spirit, I love your eyes, I love your smile, & you know what else I love! *wink* *wink* but we'll go into that much deeper later! :)  Love, your little Wife!

A Brat

Hey, You are a Brat & won't open your door! I am going out of town, I will see you when I get back! Have fun! - katie p.s. I brought you candy from the wedding 

Never You

If you are no longer yourself, You were never you. If it is now a lie, Then it was never true. If you were right just once, You've failed perfection. If you held back your tears, You've overcome rejection. If you threw the first punch, You caused the fight. If you slept before dawn, Then you missed the night. If you hate to dress up, You will never be formal. But if you just be yourself, You will always be normal. R.R. 

Greatest Trial

Dear Ryan, Thank you for your letter. It was helpful to know how you really feel. I feel the same way for you, too, but right now I'm going through the greatest trial of my life, and I'm not so sure you're ready to see who I am today. I really do love you, though. Always remember that. Please write back if you want to.  Love Always & Forever, Rita Rosalita Bisbee

Too Much At Stake

 5-6-98 Dear Ryan, Hey hon! How are you? Good it sounds like. Things are good and bad here. It seems like everything in the past week has been a 'gain something - lose something.' I got my new apartment. It's really cool. I love it. I'm not completely moved in yet, but I'll get there. On the bad part of my week, I found out Wednesday that the girl I was best friends with where I grew up was killed in a car accident. Ryan, it hurt so bad. I couldn't stop crying for 4 days! I couldn't sleep because every time I closed my eyes, I would see her. All I can think about are the things we used to do. Some were every day routines, others are special memories I'll always cherish. The thing that hurts the most is that I have nothing tangible to remember her by. God it hurts. I never thought I would have to face the death of a close friend like that. We're all so young and alive. Goes to show what alcohol can do. You don't even have to be wild for it to happ...

Sleep Tonight

Dear Ryan, Hey there! How are ya? Missing me in misery? Good! That's what I like to hear. How's everything going? I just barely got off the phone with you, and I'm already missing you. Pretty pathetic, huh? I know you're in the same boat. Gosh, this is such a good movie, I can never see it enough. Val Kilmer! Hotty. Not as much as you, though. Well, I'm really tired. I will sleep tonight with thoughts of you. I Love You! Sweetie. Love Always Rita Rosalita

BEHAVE!

Dear Ryan, Hi there! How are ya? Good I hope. I'm doing much better. How's school? I'm starting to have a bit of a social life again. Kyle came over last night and we watched movies. I'm supposed to go out with him, Kaye and Robert tomorrow. I don't know what to think about him. He's a really cool guy, but I just want to be alone for a while. I dunno, maybe I need to go on. But what if I don't? We'll see. So, ya been staying out of trouble? I hope so. Guess what?! Do you remember Jason, Dan and Karen from Pahaska? They're coming back this summer. I got a letter from Jason in the mail the other day. I'm way excited to see them all again.  Well, I'm all out of words. Say hi to everyone for me, and BEHAVE! Take care!! Rita Bisbee

Other Opportunities

Dear Ryan, Hey hon! How are ya? Well I'm o-kay- Sorry it's taken me so long to write you. You're sending your letters to my old address, and it takes weeks for me to get them. So here's my new one: Rita Bisbee 1529 Draw Street Cody WY, 82414 About your dreams. Just tell me about them. I'm sure it's not as bad as it seems. And Homecoming. I'll try to make it, but I can't promise. You might have to go for some of your "other opportunities." You see, I just started this new job, and I have to fill in all the missing shifts. So my schedule is not always a set thing, but I'll see what I can do, and then I'll get back with you. Well, it's SUPER late & I have TONS of homework begging for my attention. So, write me back & tell everyone I said "Hi!" I love you. Love Always. Rita Rosalita P.S. If you see Nathan, could you please give him my address. Thanx. Love you! Rita

Sweet Summer Skies

My Dear Diane, There was a young, tender time under sweet summer skies where we would dance barefoot in the grass and engage in ancient dialogue. We'd gather around, all in a room and tighten our belts, we'd slow down and rest without guilt. We would act and lie without fear in a world of Shakespeare. We would stay and respond, expand, include, allow and forgive, and live in a safe world of make believe. We'd evolve, enjoy, inquire, discern, accept, admit, divulge, speak out and reach out. It was our utopia, our imaginary ideal, our nirvana, our ultimate. We'd open our arms and jump, propelled by our passions, amused and charmed by our differences. We'd be gentle and make space for every emotion. We would breathe and be charmed and amused by language. We would heal and be humbled, hold close and let go and know when to do which. And we all only knew of these things because of you. You'll never know how you changed my world, one Shakespearian Summer at a time. Yo...

Waiting For Us

Katie,  I hope you realize that I would have created a perfect world of love. A world where you and I would have loved each other perfectly. But this wicked world got in the way and destroyed all that. But still, that perfect world is somewhere, somewhere waiting for us. Ryan

Vicky Hates Me

Dear Ryan, Hey! How are you? I'm o-kay- But could really do without the pile of homework waiting for me in my book bag. College is a lot different than high school. I really hated the first week, but now that I know a ton of people it's starting to be fun.  Bod Coe came to talk with me on my last night of work and asked me if I would travel with him and the managers to Denver after Christmas to help them buy the new stock for next year. I was so excited. Anne came up to see me and asked me to help her with inventory this winter. Vicky hates me so bad. But I deserve all of this. I worked my butt off to move up. Also, I got you that 'Mountain Dude' shirt you wanted. I'll bring it with me when I come up for Homecoming. Also, Beth is coming with me to Homecoming in Riverton. She needs a date for the dance, so please find one. You don't have to if you don't want to, but please do. Well, I don't know what more to say. Tell everyone I said hi! Love Always, Rita

I GRADUATED!!!

Dear Ryan, Hey honey! How've you been? I've been o-kay- I'm planning a trip to Riverton to see you on June 20th, let me know if that's o-kay- I sure hope so 'cause I've already taken the time off work. The 20th is a Friday, and I'll be able to stay through Sunday the 22nd. I have to go back to work at 8:00 am on the 23rd, so that's the longest I'll be able to stay, but I'll plan to make another trip in July. I'll need a place to stay for Friday & Saturday night. I'll be able to pay a little bit, but I'll need some prices to make sure I have enough cash. I'm bringing my brothers with me, but I'm dropping them off in Shoshoni at Ross's girlfriends house, and I'll pick them up on my way back to Cody. So let me know if all that is o-kay- 'cause it will probably be the only chance I get until sometime in July or August. Oh, guess what I did last weekend? Guess, Yep! I GRADUATED!!!! It's about time. too. I was go...

As Far As I Can

Dear Ryan, Hey there sexy! How've you been? I've been o-kay- kind of. A little depressed here and there, but I'll get through it. It's just that there's no one here I can talk to that understands. It sucks. Sometimes I just want to throw everything away, and run as far as I can, but my problems will just follow me.  I'm sorry, I should be talking about something happier. So how's life going for ya? Good I hope. I miss you so much and think about you ALL the time. I watched the video of our Homecoming dance my mother made. You looked so GOOD! Of course, you always do. So I don't know what more to say. Write me back soon! Please. I'm dying to hear from you! Love Always, XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO Rita Rosalita XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO Sorry So Sloppy! I love you!!

Here And There

Dear Ryan, Hey hon! How've you been? I've been ok. So, what do you think of my art? Wild. Sorry I haven't written in such a long time. I've been so busy. I'm putting in a lot of overtime at work. It sucks, but I need the cash. I've also been dancing quite a bit. I have a guy partner now. His name is Dustin. He's pretty cool. We haven't got into any of the really difficult stunts yet, but there's progress every day. The dance class I'm teaching is doing well, also. It's growing so fast. If too many people keep coming in I'm going to have to charge them! I'm also performing my music a bit. Here and there I find people who want to hear something new and relaxing. It's good for me to have an audience. Anyway, not much else is happening. I get my new hearing aids in a week and a half. So I might be able to hear. (Yeah right!) We'll see. I miss you lots & hope to "hear" from you soon! I love you! Love Always, Rita Rosa...

You 'Appear' To Be Normal

Dear Ryan, Your letters always bring me much joy. They're so full of passion. I know what you mean by falling in love all over again. I feel it, too.  If you want to know what you did to catch my eye, I'll tell you. You talked to me, and listened to me. You didn't see me as just an object you could show off to your friends. I've always been treated like a possession, but you were different. You showed me I was human. Not just something on display. I realized my feelings counted the same as anyone else's. That feels so good to finally know. You cared for and loved me more than any guy who's been in my life. I am in love with your smile, your touch, and the way you can always brighten my day, whether you're right beside me or 200 miles away. You put words together like an art. You always know the right things to say. You've touched my heart in a way no one else has. Your love is something I consider valuable, and not to be taken for granted. Even though we...

On The Edge

I lowered my walls and let you in. You asked me what was going on in my mind. But the second I showed my bleeding feelings, You broke those emotions wide open. My insecurities were your weapons, Twisting my words to fit your devices. You knew I was on the edge,  But you pushed me over anyway. You sat and watched me drown, Pushing all of my buttons, Pushing me deeper inside myself. You played my keys like a piano, Making me dance to your song. Wanting me hypnotized like a zombie,  Driven out of my mind. But I'll always be the one to blame, Tell the world I was your clam. Tell them I was insecure with emotions, Like a roach left to nibble on cookie crumbs, And the world will come to applaud you.

Dear You

Dear You, I won’t curse you, but I won’t wish you well either. I wish you nothing, and may our planets never touch again. Please be happy, please be sad, be in peace, or afflicted by your reality, please feel anything and everything, whatever it may be, but please, do it far away from me.  You know who you are. Ryan

THPPFT!

For your Birthday, I thought you'd appreciate some small gesture in keeping with our relationship... THPPFT! Ryan, I hope you enjoy your Birthday. I miss you much & think of you every chance I get. Love ya! Love Always, Rita Dec. 19, 1996

Cut The Bullshit

January 3rd, 1997 Dear Ryan, I've written this letter four times and I think it's better if I just cut the bullshit and get to the point. Ryan. This isn't working. We're either going to have to try harder with this relationship or call it quits. Since I've been down to Riverton for your Homecoming, you've sent me ONE letter, and a birthday card. Ryan, I can't just be there when it's convenient for you. I need some attention! I'm not saying you need to write me a letter every day, I'd just like to know what you're up to! The only explanation I have for this, is that you're cheating on me, and I would rather not think that. Ryan, I love you a lot, and I really want this to work out. I really do. I'm sick and tired of running to my mailbox everyday and finding nothing from you. I receive more mail from Nathan Laidlaw, and not only is he not my boyfriend, he lives in a whole different country! Ryan, that's pretty sad on your part. Rya...

Anything Can Happen!

Dear Ryan, Hey. How are you? I'm doing fine. Things are looking up for me in ways, and down in others. I'm learning that all the hard work I've done in school is finally paying off. I'm graduating. I had my final band concert last Thursday. It was on stage, half way through the concert, and I realized I would never be there again and I started crying. Whether or not it was pain or happiness, I don't know. I just know that for eight hard years I dedicated my life to something I loved and cherished, and that will always be with me. I will always have those years to look back on. The hard, endless hours of practice, and those joyful moments of triumph. Knowing I was good at something. I earned my place and it will still be there when I come back. Some day it will have payed off. On brighter sides, I found a new job. I'm going to start working at the Buffalo Bill Historical Museum after I come back from Christmas break. The wages and the hours are really great, and ...

More To Life

James, You're there every time I turn around. Just stay where you are, find something to do. Do you have to be a part, no matter what? You care more what people think than you should. You'll say anything, do anything if it impresses or gets you praise. I need a pair of blinders and ear plugs. I need a sound proof locked room, to forget about you. I go crazy when I know what you're thinking. I go mad when I know why you do what you do. I'm not saying change. Just live, for you. Live your life because you want to, not for anyone else. Impress, lie if you have to, why do you feel you must? People will love you if you just be the James I know you are. Just live and you'll find there's more to life than who we are. Ryan

Funny Lady

November 29, 1996 Dear Ryan, Hey hon! How are you? I'm o-kay- but could always be better. Is anything wrong? I haven't heard from you in a while. Well, it looks like I'll be in home school for second semester. So, I'll probably have more time on my hands. I'll hopefully be able to make it down to Riverton more often. If business at Maxwell's ever picks up. I went from four nights a week down to one. It's not good. I haven't been pulling in that much money. I don't know if I told you yet, but I'm for sure quitting band. I've changed my major from music education to zoology. It's really interesting. I want to go into the specific study of wild cats, like lions, tigers and panthers. I want to get into college in Africa so I can have access to them. Guess what? My parents, well, my mom anyway, wants to move to Idaho. She's hoping to move this summer. She says she misses the city and wants to go back so she has a place to shop. She's a...

Yet

Hate has never been so strong, Yet love has never been so deep. Passion has never been so hot, Yet loneliness has never been so cold. Desire has never been so constraining, Yet ignorance has never been so free. Purpose has never been so complete, Yet emptiness has never been so bitter. ~ RLJ ~ 

Buck!

Thank you, Buck! Ryan Luke Jevne is a very nice name! 😊 You are acting your role as Buck splendidly!  👏👌👍 I am so pleased that you're singing 🎶 and acting 🎭 in the show!  Thank you! 😄 Star 🌟 

What Goes Around

Dear Ryan, Hey hon. How are ya doin? Hang in there. It will soon be like it was, or better. Hopefully better. I've been really sick lately. Sometimes I wonder if I'm going to make it. There's so much pain. It feels like someone is ripping my insides out. I'm constantly tired. If this keeps up I'll have to go to the doctor. I don't want to, but I might have to. I have good news and bad news. Good news first. My leg is pretty much o-kay- now, and I'm able to dance again, and the scratches on my face are practically gone. I have a little swelling left in my ankle, but it'll be o-kay-.  Now the bad news. I hope you are sitting down. Here it goes. I wrecked my car. Not bad, but it's not good. This lady in a black Eagle Talon slammed into me one day after school. She claimed I ran a red light and hit her. It's not true though. I cleared the light, and she jumped the gun. I tried to swerve, but she still got me. If I never would have swerved she would h...

I Loved You

Ryan, I sat there in the front row, there to see only you. You up there on the stage, working the magic you always worked so well. As I watched you work that mysterious magic, I knew that there would never be another like you. And that's when I knew I loved you. Jonah

Here With Me

Traveling alone on this journey called life, Clouded with hardships, struggles and strife. Moments brimming with love, Moments shadowed with despair. Could it be, in my hour of need, that I am left alone, Forsaken, to walk this winding road as one? Or could another be here, there, with me? There are times when I feel I shouldn't, Couldn't possibly go on. But then, as if a power beyond my own, lifts me, I do. Some unknown force is driving me, Some unseen being pushing me. Leading me on to better, or worse. Some say we choose our destiny. But I cannot agree, There is someone here with me. RLJ

Pictures of You

Ryan, Wow! No matter how many times I read your letters, I never fail to get that sensation. And even a silly little grin that makes everyone wonder what I'm up to. I miss you, too. I keep the pictures of you in my car so I can see you everyday. You are so sexy! I'm not the only one that thinks so either. Some of my friends like to look at my pictures of you, and show everyone what their favorite pose of you is! (My favorite weren't in the pictures!) Beth and I were talking today, and she feels there should be more communication in our relationship. I guess I kind of agree. Maybe sometime we should just sit down and talk about life, maybe share things with each other that we don't know about. I think it would be nice, but it's up to you. There's so much more that we don't know about each other. I didn't try out for that play, but I am going to do speech. I've got to have something else in my life besides band. I fear I wore that out. I figure I can p...

Large Part of My Heart

Dear Ryan, Hey. How are ya? I'm o-kay- Having a rough time with life right now, but I'm sure I'll make it. I'm considering quitting band, and changing my major. I'm getting sick of it. I worked almost my whole life to get somewhere with music, and sometimes it seems as if I'm getting nowhere.  I'm getting back into drama, and I think I'll do o-kay- I have a try out on Monday. It's the lead role in the 'Invisible Man.' I probably won't get it, but it's worth a try. Maybe I'll get something. Who knows?! My car's not fixed yet. I hope it will be soon though. I miss it. In a few months the windows will be tinted, and I'm going to have an awesome stereo in it. I'm getting a Pioneer CD player. It's sleek. Other than that I've been working a lot. Making mucho dollars so I can hopefully go down to see you for Homecoming. If I do though, I need you to look me up a place to stay if you could. It needs to be as cheap as p...

My Man

You are my man, My all desire. You are the flame, That burns my fire. You are the shield, That keeps me safe, From all the pain, That I may face. You are the cure, That heals my heart. You are the need, That I can't part. You are the one, I see in light. I know you're there, Into the night.  With Love to Ryan Jevne By: Rita Rosalita

Beware

Sat. Sept. 21, 1996 Ryan, Hey hon! Howz it going? I'm doing o-kay- for now. I miss you though. Gosh, this last week has been hard. I got really sick. For a while I thought I was going to end up in the hospital. Last Monday I was showing signs of a premature heart attack. Then as the week went on, I was told I might have an ulcer that was bleeding internally. On Friday my stomach got the best of me, and I finally went home. I slept for 26 hours! I woke up today and finally had the strength to go to work. So maybe everything will be o-kay- 'cause I feel so much better. My muscles still ache a bit, but I'm sure it's all fine now. I gave Beth your number just-in-case something did happen. I'm sure it's all o-kay- now. It just scared me for a while. I was so white, and I looked like shit. Glad you didn't see me. You would've ran like hell. N-E ways. So what have you been doing lately? I wrote you a poem. Hope you like it. It's not spectacular, but I'm...